Ok kewl, thanks for all your reply's.
So I now realise I asked a totally stupid question, a bit like "How were the heavy elements from iron to uranium made?"
So I have read through all the reply's and narrowed the answer to my question "If you could only have 3 grits of sandpaper?", down to these grits : P12 P16 P20 P24 P30 P36 P40 P50 P60 P80 P100 P120 P150 P180 P220 P240 P280 P320 P360 P400 P500 P600 P800 P1000 P1200 P1500 P2000 P2500
Of course I also need to take into consideration :
Wood type - and size
Lathe speed
Air density
Time of year
Position relative to the equator and full moon.
Mooring restrictions.
Observations of the position of nearby galaxies.
And my personal interpretation of the 2nd law of thermal dynamics.
This isn’t a criticism, it’s just a simple observation.
This is how I would have answered the question I asked. (but then again, if I knew the answer I wouldn't have asked the question)
Q : If you could only have 3 grits of sandpaper?
The three main sandpapers I buy the most of, are - ?? grit - ?? grit and ?? grit. So, if I could only have 3 grits of sand paper that’s what I would buy, and that's the reason I would buy them.