I cant help but feel, reading back on this thread that the issue of a stable lathe whilst extremely important is missing the issue of overstepping the lathes abilities. Its not just about the stand, its the size and type of bearings, quality of the castings and the general fir and finish of the lathe itself.
I started with a lathe very similar to that of the OP, boxed in the stand and filled it with damp sand, it cured all the issues described, but, was I pushing the lathe above its limits at times, undoubtedly.
I am now fortunate and have a VB36 which as most of you know is almost limitless, check google for some astounding items in both size and weight, again a but, I always start between centers, I always find the natural balance point of the blank, then I plan my turning around that. (Lyle JAMIESON explains this better in his videos than I can) It makes a huge difference to the comfort, and safety of my turning. No more rattle a thump as I try and even out a wobbly blank, once on balance I can zip the speed way up to start resulting in better cuts and more comfortable turning.
I think we have to keep in mind the limitations of the lathe, and the difference between our aspirations and abilities, be it by experience or equipment limitations. You can`t make butter with a toothpick!!