As a production turner I favour the 1" flat skew without doubt. It maybe just the fact I was taught that way and have 40 years experience with it.
The skew is the most used and versatile tool in my rack by far and as the previous posts say it is all about practice.
I do love the skew and recommend that you take others advise and find a professional tutor for tips.
I agree with Bodrighywood, a good woodturner does not always make a good tutor. I class myself as a good turner but I am a lousy tutor.
My tips would be Use a nice, light grip Learn the overhand grip. Almost all of your control comes from the hand at the end of the handle. The hand closest to the work generally just keeps the tool on the tool rest.
I would recommend that as a beginner make sure you watch the leading edge and keep the tip cutting. The ability to use the planning method is for experienced woodturners.
Most important of all is keep razor sharp, as with all your tools but even more important with the skew.
Stick with it and when you get the hang of it you will find it is almost therapeutic as you peel of the shavings.
p.s. Never forget that concentration is required at all times with the Skew.
There is a clip video of me turning a very simple spindle almost all by skew on youtube . If you view it may I suggest turning the sound down as the lathe was waiting for a new thrust bearing and is noisy.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_BRDGq551PA